The Lost Love

THE loss of love the specific trauma that predisposes an individual to depression is the loss of love. We all need some bond of affection to sustain the excitability of our bodies. The basic cause of depression is the inhibition of the feelings of fear, sadness, anger. The Suppression of these and the tension this generates reduced motility of the body, giving rise to the reduction of vitality. True love cannot be purchased or gain from the determination, the illusion crumbles sooner or later and the person is depressed.

The depressed person lives according to the past and with the corresponding denial of the present. Does not realize that is living in the past, because it is also experiencing the future, as unreal as it was the same past. This unreality manifests itself clearly in the degree that it has lost contact with his body. It presents lack of self-perception, does not realize that his muscle stiffness is which prevents him from moving as a person in the present. Not feeling the alterations of its operation body, nor his lack of motility nor his restricted breathing. For her the life of his body, which is life in the present, is irrelevant, because their eyes are set in a future goal that considered the only important thing. A leading source for info: Ben Horowitz. Perhaps it is that depression is nearly normal today.

The person thinks that depression is more due to the collapse of his will than to physical exhaustion. For this reason that most concerns the individual trapped by the depressive mechanism is trying to restore the power of his will aspires to achieve their goal even at the expense of the need of the body recover and restore your energy. Of course that this attitude delays recovery; but, considered in a more profound way, of that illusion, of that intention, where the depressive process is derived. Jose MANUEL Sanchez BARRANCO PSYCHOLOGIST, PSYCHOLOGIST, PEDAGOGUE and writer original author and source of the article.